FACTS VERSUS FEAR
On Monday, New Jersey legislators will walk away, with their marriage 'intact'.
Nothing will change for them, whether they vote "yes" or "no". Nothing will change for the hundreds of millions - hundred million - of American voters, already married. Nothing.
So, who is bullying whom?
NUMBER OF NON-GAY MARRIAGES BEFORE MONDAY'S VOTE
NUMBER OF NON-GAY MARRIAGES AFTER MONDAY'S VOTE
[guesstimates of number of marriages in America are my own, drawn from US Census 2002, to illustrate the point Rely on them accordingly.]